Why would Sparkfun even offer these for sale? Assuming the average person would even know how to jump through the internet search hoops required to find them, the manufacturer "recommended" tooling for these pins are $1700. Do your customers a favor and just offer pre-terminated pins or connectors with flying leads already made up.

I think that the cable assembly is available from digikey (part #A100192-ND). i haven't purchased one yet, but the drawing looks spot on. Should solve your connectivity problems.